In a small village in central Kerala there lived a very poor family of 3 children and their mother. Their father had abandoned them when Zulfi was about a year old. Before even learning to walk, he had started learning what anxiety and fear and financial insecurity is! That’s how deeply rooted all these feelings were in him. While growing up, being able to eat breakfast everyday seemed like a luxury and being able to eat 3 warm meals a day was a distant dream.
When he would see other kids fathers actively involved in their lives, he felt very left out and sad.. As he grew, his feeling of sadness had turned into a case of depression. He had severe mood swings, couldn’t focus on anything, wasn’t clear about what he wanted in life, and had no particular aims or goals in life. Top it up with fear and anxiety around money.
Thanks to the non-stop internal chatter and overthinking in his head he was never really able to chat with the people around him and make friends, especially if it was a girl or a woman. Even if he did manage to make a few friends, his deep sense of embarrassment about his financial condition didn’t allow him to hang out with those friends. He was stuck in a rut. And YOU also might be stuck in your life right now, isn’t it?
With the hard work of his mother and support from his friends and relatives Sulfi was able to complete his education and find a job. When he started working, he was hardly earning Rs. 9000/- a month. He still had a lot of anxiety issues and was depressed and he still had no clarity about what he wanted out of life. And he was constantly overthinking. He felt his life was like a roller coaster. What do YOU feel about your life right now?
In 2016, while working in an IT company, one of his managers told him about NLP and how learning NLP tools and techniques had turned his life around. It was a light bulb moment for Sulfi and immediately he went to Google Bhagvaan and asked Google to help him find the best NLP trainer in India.
Based on the reviews and ratings in Google and Quora, Sulfikar narrowed down to 3 trainers and decided to speak with each one of them. After speaking with the 3, Sulfi decided to go with Rafi.
Once he spoke with Rafi, while he was still unclear about a lot of things in his life, he was extremely clear about getting trained by Rafi. Sulfi’s decision was based on the instant connect he felt with Rafi and the realisation that Rafi was completely and solely dedicated about understanding the pain areas in his life and about guiding him towards transforming his life using NLP. Sulfi was convinced that after being trained by Rafi, he would be able to shift the gears of his life from being in a rut to running like an OLYMPIC ATHLETE.
And, on a lighter note, since Sulfi is musically inclined, he couldn’t help but feel a connection with the name Mohammed Rafi – a name that is revered by music lovers in India. That Rafi mesmerized people with his songs and this Rafi transforms and enables people through his compassion and therapeutic skills.
During the intensive 5-day program, Rafi elicited Sulfi’s money metaphors and he realized that they were very un-resourceful and limiting in nature. Rafi then reprogrammed and installed new money metaphors into Sulfi’s subconscious mind. From that moment on, Sulfi started perceiving money differently. He started feeling differently about money, wealth and his money metaphors got completely changed.
Along with working on Sulfi’s money metaphors, Rafi also worked on Sulfi’s level of self-confidence by using the tools like reframing and rapport building. Rafi understood the intricate structure of Sulfi’s fears, which were deeply rooted in his childhood, and altered those fears through powerful hypnotic reprogramming of his neural path ways. To enable Sulfi to sustain this transformation, Rafi trained him to perform the peak performance exercises. With the continued support of the entire Magic of Change team, even beyond the 5 days of training, Sulfi was able to condition the peak performance state in himself. As a result of which, he was free of all his fears and anxieties. He started walking, talking, and even breathing like a CHAMPION! How confident do YOU feel about achieving your dreams and goals? YOU would also love to feel like a champion, wouldn’t you?
The direct result of this training was evident in the fact that within 3 weeks, Sulfi was able to grab the opportunity to give an interview for an onsite project through his company. Thanks to his newfound state of confidence and skills of rapport building he was able to easily crack this interview. A month down the line, he was on the flight to South Africa!
For a person like Sulfikar, who was extremely fearful and anxious and who had such limiting belief about money, cracking this interview was nothing short of a miracle. Not even in his wildest dreams had he imagined that he would smoothly sail through and interview and grab the opportunity that not only allowed him to travel overseas but also improved his financial status drastically. From a man who was struggling financially, he is now a DEBT FREE man and owns a large property in Kochi. He has travelled to other countries like Australia and Sweden. He has now also received his PR for South Africa!
During the 5 day training, Rafi had conducted an exclusive one-on-one with Sulfikar where he worked on Sulfi’s sub-modalities about women and about opening conversations with the opposite gender. As a result, Sulfi was able to communicate freely and effortlessly with women. Soon enough, he met the girl of his dreams and he is now a happily married man!
Sulfi stayed in touch with Rafi and the entire family of Magic of Change. Whenever he needed any guidance, someone from the Magic of Change family was always available. Such is the bond that Rafi and the entire team of Magic of Change create. Magic of Change is not just a brand name – It is a family, an ever growing one, at that! Sulfi’s learnings were not limited to just those 5 days of training. Those 5 days were just the beginning!
In the year 2019, Sulfi came back to attend the Master Practitioner’s and the Beyond Masters course with the Magic of Change. That’s when he discovered the project of his life – he wanted to write a book and become a millionaire! He believed in the power of NLP and the magic of change that happened within him is what he wanted to share with the world. He was committed to writing a book about transforming the struggles of life into magical moments full of learning and wisdom and focussed on growing his wealth continuously!
With consistent motivation from Rafi, and thanks to the P to D model, Thought Neural Network and new Money metaphors that he had learned during the courses with Magic of Change, Sulfi was able to set a date to meet with his dream. Mohammedu Rafi and team Magic of Change is specialized in accelerated growth and so, Sulfi’s dream became a reality in a matter of 18 mere months, when he completed writing his first book and becoming a millionaire! His book is published and Mr. Sulfikar Basheer Shylaja is now an author and a millionaire…!
YOU would love to transform your dreams into a reality too, isn’t it? Then what are you waiting for?
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